Me again. You are probably wondering why I am sending you long involved comments your way. I haven't left comments to any other bloggers. The reason for me reaching out to you rests with a part of my character that I cannot divorce myself from& that is reciprocity. For me, if any person does something for me I feel obliged to return the favor, one way or another. I was drawn to your blog a year or so ago because the men chosen were attractive. But attractiveness all by itself is not enough, not fully satisfying for me. Attractive men are a common criterion that forms the basis for so many other gay blogs. Beauty does have its place in our lives, of course. We're all attracted to fine looking things. Some gay men are totally in their element as long as the person of interest has a cock-&-ass, either or both. Nothing else matters. By bringing this attitude up, I'm not putting down that type of social interaction, for the basic fact of life for we humans as individuals are sexually oriented from birth to death, unlike other mammals. Furthermore, all men have had the experience of the our sexual drive toward another persona, at some time or another, pushing aside social norms, reasoning, etc. at some time or another for sex. A line in the movie "Man in the Orange Shirt" -- which if you haven't seen, see it -- captures the essence of what to me is vital those relationships we want to last. In the scene two gay men --one is a "slam-bam-thank-you,-man" & the other is looking for a long term relationship -- are alone together now for the first time in private & the first action of making-out is that the first man reaches down & in, grabbing the other's erection with his partner momentarily stopping him, saying "Remember there's a body attached to that penis." What stood out for me in neon bright lights about your blog was that here for the first time was what I had been searching for: snapshots of real people caught in various emotional states coping with all the multitude of life situations imaginable. In depth -- bio lesson of sorts -- us humans are so emotionally grounded because of our herd instincts that in order to survive, like our closest relatives the bonobo chimpanzees, our action, like theirs, are constantly by colored by any of a broad spectrum sexual drive characteristics in handling &/or coping with whatever situation we face or must solve. I followed your lead & went to "VelloHomo-Franco" blogspot which was interesting & from there to "sexgaygifs" where I picked lots of gifs. Gifs are like broken pieces of glass: You see just a glimpse of a few moments in another person's/persons' life. And some of those moments are beautiful & we put them deep in memory to recall at a moment's notice that gives us either an example of how to react in a specific situation or provides us with one of the ways that we want to be in our daily lives or the opposite of the preceding. Thank you for the gifs you have been putting up. Please, my friend, also include duos & gangs in what you produce. As ever --- VDS ---.
* Some men's total focus as you've pointed out interest in meeting another
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Me again. You are probably wondering why I am sending you long involved comments your way. I haven't left comments to any other bloggers. The reason for me reaching out to you rests with a part of my character that I cannot divorce myself from& that is reciprocity. For me, if any person does something for me I feel obliged to return the favor, one way or another.
I was drawn to your blog a year or so ago because the men chosen were attractive. But attractiveness all by itself is not enough, not fully satisfying for me. Attractive men are a common criterion that forms the basis for so many other gay blogs. Beauty does have its place in our lives, of course. We're all attracted to fine looking things.
Some gay men are totally in their element as long as the person of interest has a cock-&-ass, either or both. Nothing else matters. By bringing this attitude up, I'm not putting down that type of social interaction, for the basic fact of life for we humans as individuals are sexually oriented from birth to death, unlike other mammals. Furthermore, all men have had the experience of the our sexual drive toward another persona, at some time or another, pushing aside social norms, reasoning, etc. at some time or another for sex.
A line in the movie "Man in the Orange Shirt" -- which if you haven't seen, see it -- captures the essence of what to me is vital those relationships we want to last. In the scene two gay men --one is a "slam-bam-thank-you,-man" & the other is looking for a long term relationship -- are alone together now for the first time in private & the first action of making-out is that the first man reaches down & in, grabbing the other's erection with his partner momentarily stopping him, saying "Remember there's a body attached to that penis."
What stood out for me in neon bright lights about your blog was that here for the first time was what I had been searching for: snapshots of real people caught in various emotional states coping with all the multitude of life situations imaginable. In depth -- bio lesson of sorts -- us humans are so emotionally grounded because of our herd instincts that in order to survive, like our closest relatives the bonobo chimpanzees, our action, like theirs, are constantly by colored by any of a broad spectrum sexual drive characteristics in handling &/or coping with whatever situation we face or must solve.
I followed your lead & went to "VelloHomo-Franco" blogspot which was interesting & from there to "sexgaygifs" where I picked lots of gifs. Gifs are like broken pieces of glass: You see just a glimpse of a few moments in another person's/persons' life. And some of those moments are beautiful & we put them deep in memory to recall at a moment's notice that gives us either an example of how to react in a specific situation or provides us with one of the ways that we want to be in our daily lives or the opposite of the preceding.
Thank you for the gifs you have been putting up. Please, my friend, also include duos & gangs in what you produce. As ever --- VDS ---.
* Some men's total focus as you've pointed out interest in meeting another
Well said! And I would have changed the line to "Remember, there's a person attached to that penis."
Of course, most of our interest in these images is connected to our fantasies of possessing them. Aside from pure aesthetics! ;-)
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