Friday, January 15, 2016

A Story About Assholes



 

HOOP NIGHTMARES

01.14.16

Varsity Basketball Players Raped Teammate and School Let Team Keep Playing

When a freshman reported hazing, bullies got him back with a vicious attack involving a pool cue. The school called it a ‘violation of team policy.’

Editor's Note: This story has been updated to reflect new charges filed against the coaches.
When a high school basketball player told his coach he was being bullied, his tormentors retaliated by brutally raping him with a pool cue.  
While the freshman lay bleeding in the hospital and the three bullies sat behind bars, the Ooltewah, Tennessee, high school varsity basketball team kept playing. Despite the fact their coach drove the victim to the hospital and the school said it was investigating, the team wasn’t sanctioned. Instead, it was allowed to play three more games before the season was canceled. On Thursday afternoon, the coaches and the school’s athletic director were charged and may join their players behind bars.
“Coach [Andre] Montgomery is culpable and so is the assistant coach, Karl Williams,” a source close to the investigation told The Daily Beast. “This doesn’t stop with the kids.”
It started in December when the team traveled three hours from Ooltewah to desolate Gatlinburg for a tournament. Some time on the afternoon of Dec. 22, Montgomery and Williams left the kids unsupervised.
“That’s when the first round of the attacks happened,” the source said. “The coaches left the kids for two hours to go grocery shopping. How do you expect the house to be standing after being left alone for so long, even with the best of boys?”
They “started out on the freshmen in the downstairs basement,” a source close to the victim said. “All of the freshman got the pool cue...” That included the boy who would later have “holes in his pants” and need surgery for the sodomy.
According to the source, the bullies are upperclassmen who apparently hazed all of the freshmen during their out-of-town stay.
Later on that night they headed upstairs where the 15-year-old victim was sound asleep and allegedly ambushed him. The freshman fought back against the licking, which only served to make their blows even more vicious. This was too much for the boy who told Coach Montgomery that he was being harassed. Montgomery, according to multiple accounts, marched over to the cabin and chewed out the entire team.
Police: Basketball player raped by teammates
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This reprimand set off a sadistic trio of basketball players who allegedly ganged up on their tattletale teammate while he was sleeping. The bullies were two sophomores: one a “thick, muscular” 16-year-old (who sources said is 6-foot-1 and also plays on the varsity football team) who pinned the 6-foot-2 “scrawny” freshman down, which allowed the team’s 17-year-old senior (6-foot-4, 230 pounds) to allegedly violate him, multiple sources said.
A fourth teammate whipped out his phone and recorded the horror, multiple sources confirmed.
Some time after the assault, Coach Montgomery drove the boy to LeConte Medical Center. Later the Gatlinburg Police Department showed up and arrested the three accused perpetrators.
The rape was so brutal that the tip of the pool cue snapped off inside him and had to be surgically removed.
The boy was initially released from the hospital and went back to the cabin, where he collapsed in a pool of blood, according to multiple sources. When the severity of his injuries were realized, he was transferred to the University of Tennessee Medical Center in Knoxville to undergo surgery. The rape was so brutal that the tip of the pool cue snapped off inside him and had to be surgically removed, sources said.
The victim is recovering from a ruptured colon and a punctured bladder and prostate, sources told The Daily Beast.
The boy has remained actively communicating on SnapChat and has shared some details about what happened that night in the cabin.
“The boy said his injuries are getting better and that he was doing OK,” the source said.
Two of the three boys remain in a juvenile detention facility in Sevier County and a third has been released. The reasons for springing him are unclear.
The pair who tag-teamed the boy were charged with one count of aggravated rape and one count of aggravated assault. The Sevier County prosecutor could upgrade the charges to four counts of aggravated rape for each boy and hit all three with multiple counts of aggravated assault.
It was highly unlikely that other teammates were unaware of what was happening since, the source close to the victim said. “There was a lot of screaming going on.”
And a source close to the investigation told The Daily Beast the boys “may have changed roles” by taking turns tackling the teen into submission before wielding the cue stick and plunging it into the boy “through his clothing.”  
The boy who captured the assault on SnapChat was interviewed by investigators this week but “refused to say what his role was or if there was a video recording.” The teen still could face criminal charges for his chronicling role in the gang rape, even though his parents initially came clean about his involvement.
Eerily, the alleged senior ringleader had posted on Facebook when he was a freshman athlete four years ago some rules to avoid getting pranked.
“Rule #1: Never be the first man asleep when you with a group of people #SplashDown”
“Rule #2: Don’t prank everybody else around you and go to sleep. #That’sTragic”
After his name leaked online as one of the accused, his Facebook account got trolled.
“You’re a sick person. What you did was fucking horrible,” wrote one person.
“You’ll get all the ass reaming you can stand where you’re headed big boy,” wrote another.
Hazing is said to routinely occur in the Ooltewah locker rooms where the lights are shut off and, in the dark, younger team members are repeatedly walloped by their upperclassmen teammates.
“The players cut the lights out so they couldn’t see who it was that punched them and there was wrestling and horseplaying going on,” according to a source close to the victim.
Coach Montgomery would be next door to the locker room and would put the kibosh on the asskicking.
“The coach would hear the racket and told them, ‘Stop horsing around before somebody gets hurt,’” the source said.
Coach Montgomery’s attorney denied his client presided over such brutality.  
“There is no culture of hazing or abuse at Ooltewah where athletes are encouraged or taught to violate the law (or even simply human decency) by teachers, administrators or coaches,” Curtis L. Bowe III said in a statement last week.
The source close to the victim acknowledged that while the attack was ferocious, the boy had mentioned that it wasn’t the first time he’d been hazed, given that the practice is ingrained in Ooltewah High’s culture.
“They pick on the freshman students but you never heard of stuff going this far in terms of hazing,” the source said. “These kids did something that is heinous and evil to me and how can you even fathom this kind of stuff?”
If the rape wasn’t startling enough, then the school’s sidestepping should be.
Principal Jim Jarvis made little of the gang rape in an email two days later. “A violation of team policy did occur,” he wrote, followed by Athletic Director Jesse Nayadley, who said there was “no reason” to look into the coaches after the attack.
On Thursday, Nayadley was charged with false reporting after he downplayed the diabolical incident to investigators.
It wasn’t until last Wednesday, more than two weeks after the rape, that the Hamilton County Board of Education and high school administration canceled the varsity basketball season.
Superintendent Rick Smith publicly announced he was going to forfeit the remaining 13 games of the Owls’ varsity season to douse the basketball bonfire.
“Since this speculation is likely to continue until the investigation is concluded, and since this speculation could threaten the integrity of law enforcement’s investigation, I have decided to end the team’s 2015-2016 season,” he read in a prepared statement.  
Smith offered up “how heartbroken I am about this” and that he was going to “develop the kind of safeguards that will prevent this from ever happening again.”
For the source who’s close to the victim, the nonchalance by Coach Montgomery and the school seemed calculated.
“The school board members, they didn’t bother to come off from their little vacation and meet on this thing earlier,” the source, who requested anonymity, said. “That’s two weeks we’re talking about that they had the opportunity to get a hand on it and they’re waiting till Wednesday?”
The lip service seemed to have temporarily stalled the outrage since the team went on to play three games before the administration finally buckled to pressure.
Meanwhile, Coach “Tank” Montgomery has since been banished from setting foot on any Hamilton County school campus and relegated to sorting textbooks and teaching materials at a local book depository after administrators scuttled the rest of the team’s games, The Daily Beast has learned. “It’s not a supervisor position,” the source close to the investigation said.
Both Coach Montgomery and Asst. Coach Williams were charged with failure to report the rape to authorities and charged with child neglect for leaving 14 players alone in a cabin for two hours.
On Jan. 26 the charged defendants must appear in Sevier County Juvenile Court room. The senior, a source close to the rape case noted, will turn 18 five days later. That means he will be tried as an adult if the case isn’t resolved by his birthday on Jan. 31.
“And if he’s found guilty and incarcerated,” the source said, “he’ll be moved to big boy jail.”
But the source added that the prosecutor “is not inclined to transfer the case to adult court.”
The Hamilton County School District referred The Daily Beast to lawyer D. Scott Bennett, who declined to answer any questions.
“We are limited by instructions from law enforcement not to comment out of concern that doing so might compromise an ongoing investigation,” he wrote.
Hamilton County prosecutors have opened a probe in Ooltewah to determine if a history of assaults extends beyond this rape incident.
Once accusations came out claiming there may have been more than one hazing incident during the tournament trip to Gatlinburg. District Attorney Neal Pinkston’s office said it would dive in.
“When they said the hazing happened on the trip we didn’t know if that meant getting in the van in Hamilton County or arriving in Sevier County.”
Most troubling it seems is the collateral damage for anybody associated with the Ooltewah varsity squad.
While their season of 13 more games was over, the freshman teams schedule wasn’t affected.
But, according to a source close to the investigation, one of the freshman players who traveled to the tournament and had been a victim of the hazing showed up to play in Friday’s freshman matchup but was turned away and told to hang up his high-tops for the rest of the season because of his “association with the varsity team which has been sanctioned.”
Weeks before the alleged rape a Tennessee watchdog organization called Unifi-Edhad completed a bullying study. When reaching out to students throughout the state they found that bullying topped the list of kids’ concerns.
On Monday the nonprofit’s executive director, Elizabeth Crews, sent a letter to the Hamilton County School District’s chairman and the superintendent detailing at least five glaring ways that the district was “not in compliance” with state anti-bullying guidelines.
First, Ooltewah and other schools in the district have failed to give kids discreet ways to report when they’ve bullied.
“Having a safe, anonymous way to report is huge,” Crews said. “Their system has none of that.”
Crews is also stunned the district remains tone-deaf when it comes to consequences once retaliation is inflicted after bullying allegations get reported.
“I haven’t seen where it’s written down anywhere in policies, procedures or in the student handbooks what will happen if you do this,” she said.
Anything short of the bullies being tried as adults for some of the offended students, parents, and law enforcement officials will be an injustice.
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Tuesday, January 12, 2016

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Charlie Carver


Sweet story . . . there have been bigger surprises, though . . .   ;-)



'Teen Wolf' Actor Charlie Carver Comes Out as Gay
by Andy Towle | January 11, 2016


Teen Wolf actor Charlie Carver (who also played Porter Scavo as a child for many years on Desperate Housewives) has come out as gay in a five-part Instagram post.

Carver accompanies his coming out message with the photo of a sign from which he says he took inspiration:

So now, let the record show this- I self-identify as gay. And does that really matter anymore? As a young man, I needed a young man in Hollywood to say that- and without being a dick about it, I owe it to myself, more than anything, to be who I needed when I was younger. 

[RELATED: ‘I Am Michael’ Star Charlie Carver Dishes on His ‘Hot as Hell’ Threesome With James Franco and Zachary Quinto: VIDEO]

Carver says that he has planned to come out for a while, but just wasn’t able to find the proper words:

There were so many drafts and plans, none of them ever getting off the ground. So I bided my time, justifying the silence with the fact that I hadn’t really ever been “in”. I tried to live as authentically as I’ve known how to, as a gay guy, since that concept became available to me, only once or twice intentionally dodging the ever ill-timed question with the subtext that might have as well read “ARE YOU GAY???” I’ve lived “out,” not feeling the need to announce so. I was comfortably out in my private life.

And for a time, that was enough.

“I feel like more and more people, particularly young people, are striving to create a safe world for each other,” Carver adds, saying “Thank GOD” that the entertainment business has changed and actors aren’t forced to stay in the closet anymore:

I know that because of all of the brave men and women who’ve come out, self-identified, or couldn’t have possibly ever been “In”. So to them, I am also forever grateful.

Finally, Carver answers a question that probably many people familiar with his life story are wondering. He has a twin, who is also an actor.

"And let the record show my twin brother is just as cool for being straight."



Charlie and Max Carver on Teen Wolf 

Pt 1:

“Be who you needed were younger”.

About a year ago, I saw this photo while casually scrolling through my Instagram one morning. I’m not one for inspirational quotes, particularly ones attributed to “Mx Anonymous”- something mean in me rebukes the pithiness of proverbs, choosing to judge them as trite instead of possibly-generally-wise, resonant, or helpful. And in the case of the good ol’ Anonymous kind, I felt that there was something to be said for the missing context. Who wrote or said the damn words? Why? And to/for who in particular?

Nonetheless, I screen-capped the picture and saved it. It struck me for some reason, finding itself likeable enough to join the ranks of the “favorites” album on my phone. I’d see it there almost daily, a small version of it next to my other “favorites”; I’d see it every time I checked into the gym, pulled up a picture of my insurance cards, my driver’s license…. Important Documents. And over the course of about-a-year, it became clear why the inspirational photo had called out to me.

As a young boy, I knew I wanted to be an actor. I knew I wanted to be a lot of things! I thought I wanted to be a painter, a soccer player, a stegosaurus… But the acting thing stuck. It was around that age that I also knew, however abstractly, that I was different from some of the other boys in my grade.

Over time, this abstract “knowing” grew and articulated itself through a painful gestation marked by feelings of despair and alienation, ending in a climax of saying three words out loud: “I am gay”. I said them to myself at first, to see how they felt. They rang true, and I hated myself for them. I was twelve. It would take me a few years before I could repeat them to anyone else, in the meantime turning the phrase over and over in my mouth until I felt comfortable and sure enough to let the words pour out again, this time to my family…

Pt 2:

For anyone who can identify with that experience (and I think we all can to some degree; saying something from a place of integrity, owning and declaring oneself), the immediate and comingling sense of relief and dread might sound familiar to you.

For me, and my family, it was a precious conversation, one where I felt that I’d begun to claim myself, my life, and what felt like the beginning of a very-adult-notion of my own Authenticity. For that, and for them, I am forever grateful.

*Note “Coming Out” is different for everyone. You can always Come Out to yourself. Coming Out as Gay/Bi/Trans/Non-Binary/Yourself or What-Have-You is at first a personal and private experience. If you’re ready and feel safe, then think about sharing this part of yourself with others. I recognize that I was born with an immense amount of privilege, growing up in a family where my orientation was celebrated and SAFE. If you feel like you want to Come Out, make sure first and foremost that you have a support system and will be safe. I would never encourage anyone to Come Out only to find themselves in harm’s way – a disproportionate number of Homeless American (and Global) Youth are members of the LGBTQ community who were kicked out of their families and homes out of hate and prejudice. It is a major issue in-and-of itself, and a situation not worth putting oneself at risk for.

The more I adjusted to living outwardly in this truth, the better I felt. But my relationship to my sexuality soon became more complicated. The acting thing HAD stuck, and at nineteen I started working in Hollywood. It was a dream come true, one I had been striving for since boyhood. But coupled with the overwhelming sense of excitement was an equally overwhelming feeling of dread- I would “have to” bisect myself into two halves, a public and private persona, the former vigilantly monitored, censored, and sterilized of anything that could reveal how I self-identified in the latter.

I had my reasons, some sound and some nonsensical. I do believe in a distinction between one’s professional life and their private one…

Pt 3:

After the first episode of television I shot went to air, it became clear to me that I was at least no longer anonymous. For the first time, I found myself stopped on the street, asked to take a picture by a complete stranger – part of the job I had willingly signed up for.

Fame, to whatever degree, is a tricky creature. In this day and age, particularly with the access offered by social media, it demands that you be On, that you be Yourself, Always, in your work and to your fans. In this way, the distinction between public and private has become blurry, begging questions like “to what extent do I share myself? Do what extent do I have to?” When it came to this differentiation of public/private, I was of the opinion that my sexuality could stay off the table. While my Coming Out was very important for me, I wanted to believe in a world where one’s sexuality was for the most part irrelevant. That it didn’t “matter,” or that at least it was something that didn’t need to or ideally shouldn’t ever have to be announced to a stranger, a new colleague, an interviewer. Even the words “Coming Out” bothered me. I took issue with them insofar as that “Coming Out” implied being greeted with attention, attention for something I would prefer to be implicitly just Human, an attribute or adjective that was only part of how I saw my whole self. I did not want to be defined by my sexuality. Sure, I am a proud gay man, but I don’t identify as a Gay man, or a GAY man, or just gay. I identify as a lot of things, these various identifications and identities taking up equal space and making up an ever-fluid sense of Self.

Furthermore, as an actor, I believed that my responsibility to the craft and the business was to remain benevolently neutral – I was a canvas, a chameleon, the next character. For the most part I had a duty to stay a Possibility in the eye of casting, directors, and the public. If I Came Out, I feared I would be limiting myself to a type, to a perception with limits that I was not professionally comfortable with. And I created in my imagination an Industry that was just as rigid in this belief as well.

Pt 4:

After having the privilege of playing a range of characters, gay, straight and otherwise, I realize this is not the case. Things in this business have changed and will continue to. Thank GOD. I know that because of all of the brave men and women who’ve come out, self-identified, or couldn’t have possibly ever been “In”. So to them, I am also forever grateful.

But then I saw that little photo on Instagram. Well, in truth, it had found me long after I’d made up my mind to write something like this. There were so many drafts and plans, none of them ever getting off the ground. So I bided my time, justifying the silence with the fact that I hadn’t really ever been “in”. I tried to live as authentically as I’ve known how to, as a gay guy, since that concept became available to me, only once or twice intentionally dodging the ever ill-timed question with the subtext that might have as well read “ARE YOU GAY???” I’ve lived “out,” not feeling the need to announce so. I was comfortably out in my private life.

And for a time, that was enough.

Things change. There’s a lot about the Now that I’m very excited about these days. I feel like more and more people, particularly young people, are striving to create a safe world for each other. We’re learning new vocabularies to help others feel heard when they try and articulate their perceived “otherness”- words like cis- and trans-, non-binary, fluid… We’re together exploring the possibilities of the Social Media Frontier, experimenting with new ways to connect, galvanize, and awaken. I get fucking MOVED every time I hear a high school voted in their transgender classmate as Prom King or Prom Queen, or when I see Twitter afire with outrage over mistreatment, brutality, and injustice. But I also mourn over what feels like a lot of anger and righteous indignance. I long for the world to be simple, for everyone to feel happy and safe in who they are as individuals and members of a community. I can only hope that the beginning of this unrest is productive, something our generation(s) is moving through in order to end up someplace better.

Pt 5:

But what can I do? How can I participate? Honesty is probably a great step in the right direction. I now believe that by omitting this part of myself from the record, I am complicit in perpetuating the suffering, fear, and shame cast upon so many in the world. In my silence, I’ve helped decide for to you too that to be gay is to be, as a young man (or young woman, young anyone), inappropriate for a professional career in the Arts (WHAAA???)

So now, let the record show this- I self-identify as gay. And does that really matter anymore? As a young man, I needed a young man in Hollywood to say that- and without being a dick about it, I owe it to myself, more than anything, to be who I needed when I was younger.

Happy 2016, and all my best to you and yours in the year ahead.

And let the record show my twin brother is just as cool for being straight.

Much Love,
C




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